Life is perfect

No seriously, I couldn't be happier than I am right now. I've got a wonderful loving husband, twin boys that are super sweet and fun and everything you would want from a son, and a 7 month old baby girl that is perfect in every single possible way. We got pass of all passes for the year for the whole family and Greg and I got movie pass for the year just for us two. I would say this is a pretty good start to 2014. Julian asks to pray at bed time just about every night after our story, Leon is as funny and silly as ever, and Sophia is all smiles and hair for days. I can't even count how many people have stopped me in public to see her hair or to ask if it's a wig. She is almost crawling but rolling everywhere. The boys got balance bikes for Christmas and I can't wait for spring to come so that we can get back outside, being inside for too long makes me depressed. Life is good here.

3 kids 2 dogs 1 happy family

It's been over a year since my last blog post and since then a lot has happened. We lost our black pug Chato (reasons unknown) and also lost a dog we were sitting. Not a good year for pets here at the Lobato home. We took the boys to Disneyland and sea world for their 2nd birthday and saw the beach for the first time. On that trip I also found out I was pregnant. Greg won achievers again so we got to go to cancun in march just the two of us all expenses paid at a very fancy all inclusive resort, it was very cool. Now the boys will be 3 years old next month and I'm trying to savor every last bit of 2 that we have left. Sophia was born May 17th and is growing fast. 3 kids under 3 keeps me very busy to say the least. The boys favorite thing to watch is Caillou, they are barely potty trained, which was the most stressful thing I have ever done and the most rewarding. Everything with twins is more complicated but I am very glad that one is done with. We just bought a brand new 2013 Toyota tundra (Greg's dream truck) and we sold my 2008 ford escape which we bought last November and got a used 2000 Toyota Ecco. Since we've been married we've had the S10, 07' corolla, 94 corolla, 11 corolla, 94 prévia, 08 escape, 12 tundra, and 00 Ecco. 8 cars in 4 years! That's about right, for some reason we can't hold on to a vehicle for very long, we get bored or something. I'm really hoping we can keep these two for a long while. Right now my life consists of movie screenings with Greg, trying to get as much sleep as possible, nursing, keeping the boys fed, and trying to keep myself and all the kids looking and smelling presentable before we leave the house everyday (which can never be done on time). Right at this moment Sophia is napping in her crib and the boys found a stash of salt water taffy in the cupboard and I'm pretty sure they've been in the kitchen eating every last one so now they're yelling floofy groofy head to each other and laughing loudly. On the agenda for today is get the dishes washed, make spaghetti for lunch and take the kids for a picnic in the park before or after nap time. Every time Greg and I go out alone we can't go without remembering and talking about something cute the kids did that day. The boys are at such a cute age, they never have clothes on and they do and say the funniest things, I need to take more video of them. Leon is in my face right now saying scooby face head and putting a balloon string around my nose

so I will get up and start lunch. The recap of the last year I would say has been pretty wonderful. We are very blessed.

So today I (Diana Lobato) am starting a 12 week herb cleanse. If you are wondering why it's because I started feeling nauseous last september and after what felt like about 100 pregnancy tests and 50 different doctor visits I got my gallbladder out ( big sad regret) and I was still feeling nauseous. So I read a book called "Never be Sick Again" by Ramond Francis and also a book called "The Detox Miracle Diet". Both of those books talked about healing your body through wholistic treatment such as herbs and natural vitamins and RAW FOODS. So, here I am six months later with the first package of herbs weeks 1 and 2 and starting my journey to optimum health. Although the nausea subsided months ago ( Reasons still unknown ) there are many other areas where my body can use some rejuvenating. So! For twelve weeks I will be taking one dropper full of all the herb tinctures you see above morning noon and night before each meal along with three capsules of the bowel formula to keep things healthy and moving along smoothly. I have to maintain an 80 to 100% raw food diet while taking the herbs for best cleansing results. So this morning I blended together 1 and a half banana, 2 oranges, 4 strawberries, 1 kiwi, 1 pear, and some ice. It was delicious, unlike the herbs which tasted like hot saki mixed with ginger. Yuck. It says to "burn the alcohol off" by simmering 1 to 3 ounces of water, put it in a glass and add all your dropper fulls of herbs into the water. It tasted like I had taken an 8 ounce shot of hot vodka. Not pleasant.

Although I got these herbs a week ago I have not been able to start the cleanse because we have not had groceries ( raw foods) and I was able to go and get some yesterday. Greg had gotten movie tickets for 7pm and I only had an hour to shop, during rush hour, with our 18 month old boys. Let me tell you that was a challenge! The shopping carts at Sunflower market are not big enough for 2 children and I go there because they have a good assortment of organic produce. I put Leon in the child seat of the cart and Julian in the big basket and start dashing for groceries like a mad woman. As I am putting food in the cart Julian is grabbing it out of the bags and trying to eat it. I am trying to weigh the fruit as Julian again is stepping on all the tomatoes and cucumbers I jut put in the cart. He is saying "Nana! Nana!" because he wants a banana and doesn't understand the concept of paying for the food before we can eat it yet. So I end up having to carry Julian in one arm just to keep him from crying for not being able to eat the food surrounding him, I am pushing the cart with one hand and trying to juggle getting a produce bag and fill it with salad greens and everything else I am trying to scramble to buy before the movie starts, not to mention I still have to drop off the boys with Gregs mom Patricia who is 30 minutes away before the movie. I had to get my shopping done on Wednesday because they have double ad that day so there are double the things on sale. Well, after I managed to get everything I forgot about the construction that was going on on state street and ended up calling my sister Cathy to babysit since she lives right next to the jordan commons where our movie was. All ended up working out. I sort of went on a junk food binge last night knowing I was starting this cleanse today so I picked up snacks before the movie for Greg and I which consisted of dougnuts, peach o's, a coke, laffy taffy, kit kat, twix, and a mini cheese pizza from the theatres pizza hut. Wow, talk about indulge!

Among other things Greg recently got a promotion at Market Star and they upscoped his new team which means he is getting ANOTHER RAISE!! :) Which we desperately need! Now don't get me wrong, Greg makes plenty of money to support us already but since he bought me the 07 corolla in december 10 and himself a brand new 2012 corolla last summer times have been tight. I am so proud of him for being so good at his job and being able to support a family, I know that must be hard work for him but he carries it well.

Julian and Leon are mama's boys and they are too adorable for words. They give each other kisses and rub each others back while saying "nay" which means Nice. They love to play in the car and pretend to drive. They love air planes in the sky and playing in sand. What else can I say, they are just wonderful:)

They finally came home! ;) I was so happy this day and also realized I had no idea how to care for a baby, let alone two babies. Mine and Greg's thoughts were as follows. " Are they cold? Are they hot? Are they breathing? Are they hungry? What do we dress them in? Where should we put them? Where should we ourselves be? Put the dog out. Is it to loud? etc. etc. As new parents we were very high strung. Me, being stressed to the max with the nursing two babies every three hours on top of everything else I was worried about, was turning gray on the spot. The first thing Greg did when we got home was put on the movie Avatar because he wanted to do what he loved with the babies and that was watch a movie. One of the awful nurses at the hospital had told me that we should'nt let anyone near them for six weeks because they are very suseptible to sickness since they are so new and small. If they get sick they will be up at primary childrens with higher security than the NICU, I wouldn't be able to hold them, they would be on respirators, they could DIE and all the awful things you can imagine. So, we told everyone we didn't want visitors but of course Greg's parents were the first one's to come over. That first night I was listening to them sleep and heard Leon with a little congestion, like a tiny snore. I immediately FREAKED out and panicked, burst out into tears, started pacing the floor, called the hospital in a panic, the nurse said just to suck his boogers with the booger sucker and not to worry unless he couldn't breathe through them. That calmed me down but I hate that nurse for making me more stressed than I already was. I was so determined to nurse that I woke up with them every three hours, changed one baby's diaper, nursed him, changed his clothes if needed, swaddled him, and put him in his crib. Then changed the other baby's diaper, nursed him, changed his clothes, swaddled him, and put him back in his crib. Sometimes this took 45 minutes and sometimes it took an hour and a half, so that would leave me with an hour and a half to two hours of sleep before the next round. This went on for about 3 or 4 months. All I have to say is thank goodness for family and I survived! I never woke Greg up at night to feed them since I was nursing, and our rule from the beginning has been never to bring them into our bed to sleep. I know how easy and addicting this has been for other mom's and I didn't want it to become an unbreakable habit so we have always had our bed for us and their beds for them. The first night they were home I slept them in their bassinett next to our bed but since I was so sensitive to every peep I couldn't ever fall asleep so the Dr. suggested I put them in their own room in their own beds so I could get some rest. So I did. And since their second night home they have slept in their own room.

Julian rolled first, crawled first, and walked first. He is my little dare devil, Julian will attempt everything untill he get's it right. Leon is a little sweetheart and when he decides to do something it is deliberate and perfected. In a nutshell this last year has brought us two new cars ( an 07 toyota corolla and a 11 toyota corolla) BIG MISTAKES! Our pug Chato died :( (Sad day), my 13 year old cat Baby died who stayed at my dad's when I got married ( Another sad day ),Greg and I had our two year anniversarry, the babies turned 1. We had their first birthday party here at our house in West Jordan. We got a room mate ( Greg's best buy friend Gabe Perez moved into our basement from August 11 to Feb 11 as a favor to us so we could get a little extra income), Julian's first steps were on December 24th 2011 and Leon's first steps were on January 23rd 2012. Both of them are still a little wobbly but they're getting better everyday:)

Recently (last weekend) we drove down to Mexico as a family with my dad and sister and her daughter to visit my family. My grandma had a stroke last year and my dad wanted to go down and see her. It was 12 hours one way and it was hard on the babies but not as hard as when we did a road trip to New Mexico with Greg for a business trip last year with them when they were just 8 months old and had to stop alot more frequently because of blow outs in the car seat. To add to the "Vacations" if you would even categorize the above in that category, Greg won a trip to Maui, Hawaii at his amazing work and he gets to take ME! We are leaving feb 6th and come back the 12. I am going to miss my baby boys so much since the longest I have spent away from them has been one night but at the same time I am so excited to be going to Maui with Greg and bike down a volcano and go to a luau:) I hope I have covered the important parts of this last year and a half and will try to remember to update our blog more frequently. Life is good:)

"Baby B" Leon Gregory Lobato

Ok, I hadn't realized that it has been over a year since I have updated our blog so I will try and cover everything important. Our sweet boys were born at exactly 36 weeks ( exactly one month early). I was at home thinking maybe I was havig braxton hicks (fake contractions) but I didn't know for sure since I hadn't felt them before and I didn't know what to expect. So I started counting minutes between them just in case they were real. Reuben (Greg's brother) came over on his way home from work that night to bring me a grounding device and stayed untill after one thirty in the morning, since Greg and I are night owls that was not out of the ordinary. Right around 2:20 am I was laying in bed trying to go to sleep and my water breaks! Greg was laying next to me and I was like " Oh shoot.... Oh shoot, oh shoot, oh shoot! I think my water just broke." Greg jumps up and grabs me a towel as I carefully get up and walk to the bathroom i say " it's still going!" So naturally as everyone does, I get in the shower. Why everyone get's in the shower when their water breaks is unknown to me but at the time it seemed like the right thing to do. I am sitting down in the tub thinking "this isn't it, I don't feel like i'm in labor" so I tell Greg just that and he tells me to call my midwife just to make sure. So I do and sure thing she says " if your water broke you are in labor girl, you need to go to the hospital" LOL. Shows how much I knew. So Greg being in a panick called Reuben back over, I don't know why since Reuben had never had kids before but I'm thinking just for moral support for Greg. So we pack up and go to the hospital, wait, get the epidural, wait, finally around 5 am we felt it was safe to call the family and tell them we were about to have the babies! Now since I had wanted the genders to be a surprise everyone was that much more anxious for the arrival of these twins. I was feeling every contraction even with the epidural in place which didn't hurt but I could definately still feel everything and that made for my cathedar to be very painful so they ended up taking it out per my very strong request. Finally they make greg put on a full body suit and shoe covers and a hair cover and a mask as we enter the operating room for me to deliver. Even though I wasn't planning on having a C section they had to deliver me in there since it was a " high risk" delivery, it was a very sterile and scary looking room. All white and with super bright big lights shining on me. I was able to move my legs and transfer myself from my bed to the operating table and that right there told me that the epidural was not working as it was supposed to. As the contractions started getting stronger I started feeling more pain, and as we hadn't taken any birthing classes I had no idea what I was doing. I started getting a fever and all my push attempts were getting nowhere. The doctor would tell me to push and hold my breath for 10 seconds while holding my own legs up, after a few of these I was ready to pass out. Not to mention the IV in my arm was in just the right place so when I would bend my arm it was super painful so every contraction I would push and hold and get dizzy with no result. Finally, and if you have never had kids you wouldnt know this, my midwife says "push like your trying to have a bowel movement" (tmi sorry) and miraculously i feel baby A start moving down the hatch. Now that we are making progress the baby shows it's head and the nurses start to take guesses on the gender based on it's crown. Haha! Me being on the top end not seeing anything I was listening to everything as one nurse says "it's a girl!" and I get alarmed not knowing the baby was out that much to tell as she says again " it looks like a girl head".... OMG! I was a little annoyed at them making me think the baby was something when they were just guessing. A couple more pushes and baby A is born. I hear "IT'S A BOY!!" and i hear baby's first cry and look at Greg and start to cry myself. Greg had been sitting next to my head the whole time rubbing my hair. The Dr. hands Baby A to greg to hold before they take him away and we await the contractions for baby B to get ready to come out. I guess with all that new room baby B decides to move around and flips or something because the Dr. reaches up inside of me and turns the baby in my belly, this was the most painful thing I have ever felt, next to giving birth of course. 20 minutes go by as I think " oh no I have to do that again!" and out comes baby B and I hear "IT'S A BOY!!", I look at Greg again and start to cry as I hear baby B's first cries. This time they put him on my chest and let me hold him before they take him away. My first thought is pure joy and as I look at him I think " who is this little stranger that I love so much" It is weird how the first time I laid eyes on this little person I felt like I knew him and yet didn't at the same time. Needless to say the labor went fabulous, no C section needed and I was rolled back to my regular hospital room, Greg went to the waiting room and announced to the waiting family that it was two healthy baby boys. For some reason the NICU (New born intensive care unit) was very busy that day. Since the boys were born a month early they were taken straight there and put in an incubator. I was very motivated to nurse my twins and so I wanted to go and see them and get started. For three hours they kept me from my babies and I was livid. Every time I called down to the NICU they said I could'nt come down to see them yet. This made me very angry. Finally I called and wa fed up and they said " oh i'm sorry no one told you, our doors have been open for an hour now", as you can imagine I was furious. So I went down and saw my two boys for the first real time together and they were beautiful. The lactation nurse helped me do the first attempt at nursing, and after that I went down to the NICU every three hours to nurse, determined not to let the nurses give them formula. We stayed an extra day on top of the three that they keep you at the hospital so I could continue to nurse and when I went home I was forced to let them feed them formula since I did not have a supply of breast milk to give them overnight. The nurses at St. Marks Hospital NICU were very difficult with me wanting to nurse them by the way and I ended up having a break down with the head nurse over how awful they were making me feel for wanting to nurse my babies. Reguardless, ten days later both of my babies came home the same day, with no medicines or oxygen or machines or special instructions like all the nurses told me would happen. I strongly beleive this was because of mamas magic milk:) And that covers up to the day we brought them home.

"Baby A" Julian Gregory Lobato

32 WEEKS

Ok so I am officially on the home stretch of this pregnancy. Although when people ask how I am I say fine, I have many uncomfortable symptoms that come along with measuring past 40 weeks (for only one baby of course).

It has been one week since I was sentenced to bedrest, not fun. The first half of the week I didn't really follow instructions as I was organizing things in the babies room and going about the house as normal.

I had another appointment yesterday to check the babies heart rates and fluid levels, they sent me to labor and delivery because my uterus was contracting alot (which I cannot feel), I have a feeling that this will be the routine untill they actually decide to come in a month or so.

I know these babies arent coming anytime soon and in my opinion this bedrest is nonsense. I feel like such a lazy bottom!

I am really thankful for my sister Cathy that has been coming over almost everyday bringing me food or cooking me food or doing anything else I need. She is really awesome.

Greg's mom and sister also came over this week and cleaned my whole house extensively. I felt so awkward just sitting on the couch while they cleaned, but with my mother in law calling me every five minutes telling me to "stay down" I knew I couldnt walk around while she was here.

I am stressed out about writing thank you cards for the two awesome baby showers I had, and although I am on bedrest at home doing nothing all day everyday I don't have blank thank you cards or stamps. And I also have a stack of books my friend Miranda lent to me to help with the boredom that I also haven't started and for some reason that stresses me out. I guess since i'm done with school and I can't work anymore something had to take that stress's place.

The biggest discomfort is my PUPPPs rash. I am on medication for the third time during this pregnancy and although it takes the riddiculous itch away it makes me so grumpy, towards Greg mostly, poor guy. I don't want to be a monster but the medicine just makes me so irritable it sucks! I cannot explain how bad the itch is so the shrek temperment is a small price to pay to make it go away.

I know all I can do right now is complain about everything and honestly I don't know how not to. Pregnancy has consumed my life and my thoughts and I can think of nothing else.

I can't wait to be back to my normal self and have my two perfect precious babies in my arms!

Six days away from five months along. I am feeling both of the babies little kicks inside my belly and I love it! People are always telling me "Wait till they start kicking your ribs! You won't be enjoying it then!" ......I think to myself, thanks for that. It's just like when people find out you're having your first child/children they say horrible things like " OH HO HO! Enjoy your time together while you can because once the babies are here you can kiss your relationship goodbye!" It's like JEEZ! Way to ruin an awesome thing! Just because your lives are miserable doesn't mean that you have to wish it upon mine! People that give advise are annoying. What happened to the days where you just gave good wishes for the miracle of a baby/babies. Sometimes I forget that I am pregnant and then I see myself in the mirror. HA!
I am enjoying this time even though it is getting harder to bend down due to sharp lower back pain, even walking and shifting my weight from one leg to another hurts the back of my hip disks or whatever they are. Now I know what they mean when they say child bearing hips, mine are getting ready to deliver two babies and I can feel it! Even though it causes some discomforts I kindof like complaining about them ;) I haven't given birth yet but I am already feeling that motherly instinct, even when they are causing me pain I like to know that they are in there wiggling and stretching their little arms and legs around. They are small nudges for now, I will keep a kick journal so that I can see for myself if it is really that horrible towards the end to ruin it for every other pregnant lady I conversate with.

Baby bump one week away from five months! I think i'm doing pretty goood for carrying two in there!

My sister got me this shirt for mothers day, I liked:)

18 weeks

I'm 18 weeks now!
I had an ultrasound today and baby A is 8 ounces and baby B is 7 ounces! They are both growing strong:) I am feeling bigger everyday, I am also still staying strong in waiting to know what the genders of the twins are untill they are born. I have been feeling them move a little lately, yesterday baby A had the hiccups. It took me a while to figure out they were hiccups but once I did I liked it more:) Baby B was wiggling so much during the ultrasound today that the nurse had trouble getting measurements because he or she wouldn't stay still:) I am lathering with extra virgin olive oil everyday despite what my midwife says which is I can't prevent or cause myself stretch marks. We'll see about that.

We're expecting... TWINS!!

So we found out in february that we were pregnant, very pleased because one of Greg's cousins had also been trying and their announcement made us even more hopeful, we found out a few days later that we were expecting as well:)

Greg and I went in for our 12 week appointment to hear the heart beat (which was magical) and Greg teased the midwife asking her if she could hear two of them, she responded with a no and all of the hopeful thinking for twins was eliminated. It was'nt untill I woke up the saturday morning after my appointment to a gush of blood!:( My midwife sent me to the emergency room where the doctor gave me my first ultrasound to check on the "baby" or so we thought. As he put the cold goo on my stomach I quickly told him that I did not want to know the gender, just in case you could tell already (you can't). As he moved the wand around I watched the ultrasound excitedly to see the baby as he said "It looks like there's two in there." quite calmly I might add. I replied with a "NO!, You're lying!" scanning the monitor with hawk like eyes and there they were, two little babies plain as day! I then said "You're kidding me!" with the last part of the sentence about five octaves higher than the first and started to cry tears of joy and looked at Greg which had a smile from ear to ear as he said to me "You always get what you want!"

Telling people you're pregnant with twins is so much better than announcing the regular pregnancy! I am now 14 weeks, not very big yet but from what I've seen, late pregnancy with twins looks like your belly is blowing a bubble that is about to pop! I am scared for stretching out and scared for the twins health but other than that I am super excited and feel so so blessed.dd

Three months ago Greg and I decided that we want a mini-us..... We are now trying for a baby!!!! This is the first post or announcement I have made about this except for the select few people that already know, we made the decision in November and we have been getting more and more anxious every month.

New additions to the family

This is our newest family member, her name is Anisia and she is my perfect little niece that I have been waiting a very long time for:) She was born July 15th 2009. My dad was woken up very early in the morning to come to the hospital to await her arrival which explains his Einstein hairdo!

I would have never thought six years ago that I would be the one to propose to Greg, well, I wasn't even thinking I would propose to anyone.

Greg wanted to get married four, or even three years ago. He has always been the grown up in our relationship. I knew one night when I felt bad for being mean to him. I wanted to tell him right away I was ready but I thought, no this is too rash, so i simmered in it for a few days. After a week passed I was still frazzled by my own thoughts, but I still stood by my decision, and after a month of ensuring that I wasnt making a decision on emotion, I bought him a ring. It was March 25, 2009, his 24th birthday. I wanted to give it to him then because he always gives me the best birthdays. The funny thing was that I had to argue with him about the reasons I did'nt want to be married just a few weeks before, I had already had his ring at that time so I was secretly smiling to myself as he was steaming out the ears. A good surprise that would be coming very soon. I gave him his present and he laughed, then cried, then we both cried. It was a good moment.

This is our Miniature Schnauzer Coco. She is the light of my life, next to Gregory of course. Greg got her for me for my 22nd birthday and it was love at first sight. She follows me wherever I go, when she hears keys she will run to the front door and outside to be ready to jump in the car. I have loved all animals my whole life, some of my hobbies in my spare time are saving worms and snails from drying up on the sidewalk after it rains. (Lol, it's true! Ask Greg) I got a cat once from my friend Franny in 6th grade. My dad of course said I couldnt keep her and I locked myself in my room with her every night untill my dad gave in, because he is as much of a sucker for baby animals as me. Later on she turned out to really be his cat instead of mine, go figure. Coco is my first dog, to actually be owned by me. She loves me more than anyone else, that's how I know she's mine.
She is the best dog in the whole world. My little Coco

Planning the wedding. ...Ugh

If you have ever planned a wedding, you know the pain I am in. Everyone and their extended family has their own opinions on how we should do things. I am holding back as much as I can to not get angry. I know at the time of speaking everyone thinks they are helping, well, your not. If you want to help a couple plan their wedding, ask them what they want. Please do not put in your "2 cents". I could just be tired and lacking sleep and have an overload of homework and things on the list from the endless list of what to do before the wedding, or I could be speaking for every bride that has ever been. I wish I could do this on my own. I love blogging! It's like writing in a journal, it really helps me to releive some of the stress and things on my mind. Happy planning to me!